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A Confidence Guide for the Bride Who Hates Having Her Photo Taken
If you've ever looked at someone else's wedding photos and thought, "I could never look like that." I want you to know something... Almost every bride I photograph says exactly the same thing, as woman we are basically told from birth what is wrong with us by other people and society. We are told perfection is photo shopped magazine covers and a certain weight, height, eye, color, lip etc. No matter the size or good looking the bride or groom is, they have their own securitie
Ashleigh Kabe
Jul 115 min read


11 Wedding Day Tips to Reduce Stress (From a Wedding Photographer Who Has Photographed lots of Weddings)
I've photographed enough weddings to know that no wedding day ever goes exactly to plan and that's completely okay. The weddings that feel relaxed aren't the ones where everything is perfect. They're the ones where the couple planned ahead for things that may go wrong, so the surprise wasn't there and didn't let the little things steal the joy from the day. I've zipped up brides wedding dresses, sewn dresses, put makeup on brides when i am no makeup artist, shot quicker becau
Ashleigh Kabe
Jun 304 min read


A Photographer Bride: Quest for a photographer
So I got engaged in November 2025. I had the best photographer in mind that I was going to book for my wedding since I first saw her work. She is phenomenal and was my dream photographer. Unfortunately, she isn’t based in Johannesburg, and flying her up was not in the budget. Family said to me find someone in Johannesburg. I thought it’s fine, wedding photography is such a saturated market I've been told, surely I could find someone in quite easily. This was not the case. The
Ashleigh Kabe
Mar 243 min read


A Photographer bride: Quest for the Perfect Wedding Venue
Choosing My Wedding Venue as a Photographer Bride What I Looked for That Most Brides Don’t Even Notice Finding the right wedding venue is one of the biggest decisions in wedding planning. But planning my own wedding as a photographer? That changed everything. Most brides walk into a venue and ask, Is this beautiful? I walk in and ask, Where does the light fall at 4pm in winter? Because to me, the venue isn’t just where we’ll get married. It’s the space that will hold every me
Ashleigh Kabe
Feb 254 min read
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